Does sex Matter? Print E-mail
Tuesday, 06 April 2010 11:51

I'm sure the second word of this post's title was a big draw for many readers. So before I go any further and disappointment too many people, let me rephrase it. Does the gender of a trainer matter? I'm asking because I've noticed in some ads that, supposedly, females should only be trained by females. I'd guess there might be some male trainers that would suggest that only men should work with a male trainer, but it's much more often the opposite. Either way, I disagree.

biceps muscle Let's start by me asking, what's the difference between a male biceps muscle and a female biceps muscle? What about a man's gastrocnemius compared to a woman's? Refer to any reputable anatomy reference guide and you hopefully won't be surprised to find out that there isn't any. Apparently some 'fitness professionals' would have you believe that a woman knows more about training the female physique better than any male. Hmm. That's makes me wonder about their background. If they have a degree, were all of their exercise physiology professors female? And if so, was all of the research they studied conducted only by female exercise scientists? I seriously doubt it. The same would apply to their certifications. There are continuing education courses, and specialty certifications that are all about learning about female anatomy and physiology, but any worthwhile personal training certification will cover these issues.

This isn't gynecology. For that, it's more understandable why a women would prefer a female over a male. And even then, a study showed that for 37% of women surveyed, it doesn't matter if it's a male or female. Like anything else, the first question should be "Are they good?"
 
I'm not saying there are no differences between training men and women. Even all men don't train, or should be trained exactly the same. What I take issue with is having a trainer of the opposite sex make a statement suggesting that I'm an inferior trainer based on my gender. Just because I'm a man does not mean that I would have zero knowledge or understanding of female physiology, and how it differs from a male's. And it certainly doesn't mean I would have no interest in learning about the subject. I'm unable to get pregnant, but does that mean I'm not qualified to work with a pre or postnatal female? No. As a matter of fact, I've successfully trained clients during this exciting period of their lives. But according to some, a female trainer, who has never been pregnant, and has no experience working with pregnant women, or brand new moms, would still be better suited for training a pre or postnatal female than I am.

I can fully understand the preference being based on comfort. I can understand the desire of some women to want to exercise in women's only facilities. I don't understand the reasoning of a female being trained by a female just because they are of the same gender. That's like saying overweight people should seek out trainers who used to be overweight, because they've been there and they can relate. What is comes down to is qualifications and rapport. Sure, some women will bond better with a female trainer, be more comfortable, and adhere better to a program than compared to working with a guy. And there are certainly trainers that have their preference of working with one sex over the other. I've got no problem with that. But, a good trainer, male or female, will know and understand the differences between working with men and women, and that difference has least to do with the muscular system. So, folks, don't be fooled into thinking that if you're a woman, working with a male trainer will lead to you looking like a man.

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What's your take on this? Would you choose a trainer, or any other professional based solely on their gender? Leave a comment. I'd like to know.

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Buffies photo courtesy of picasaweb.google.com/areaorion

 
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0 # Guest 2010-04-06 15:11
:o

who backs up the truck for the steriods for those women?

Anyhow, love this blog. So correct.
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0 # Aaron 2010-04-06 19:43
No truck needed, they work at the lab :o

Thanks, I'm glad you like my blog. Hopefully you'll be back again.
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0 # David Slaughter 2010-04-16 11:11
Whazzup cuzz ? how goes it glad to see ya. How is everybody I am in Vegas can come see you next month. hit me back
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0 # Aaron 2010-04-16 16:53
It's been a long time!
Now I've got cousins on both sides in Vegas. We're all doing great.
Send me an email- use the contact link on the menu to the left.
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0 # Todd 2010-04-07 10:40
Egads, those "ladies" have hit the gym AND the gear pretty hard.

Anyway, the whole men training men and women training women doesn't come down to gender muscle. I see it as a mental thing

I would have a difficult time being trained by a gal. Not because she doesn't know what she's doing, but because I would question whether or not she would know how to train a man that want to pack on muscle or to build real strength.

Not that a woman couldn't do so, but how many of them have real world experience training a guy how to truly increase his squat, benchpress or deadlift?

Now, would most male trainers be able to do that? I'm not so sure, but the chances are greater that they've had a client or two that wanted to really build, and not just "tone" or "lose fat".

The same could also be said about men training females.
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0 # Aaron 2010-04-07 12:14
Hi Todd,

I can tell you from experience, there are plenty of women with real world, and competitive experience, in training to build muscle mass, and increasing the poundage in the three basic power-lifting moves. I trained along side one when I worked at a Gold's Gym. She had just as much knowledge as any of us male trainers and as a competitive power-lifter, she had more knowledge and experience training others for power-lifting than the average male trainer. She was also great at training women to lose fat and get the feminine physique they were after.
My point is, it all comes down to knowledge and experience. And by experience, in regards to the profession of training, I mean experience training others, not yourself.

One of the reasons I decided to write this post was from reading an ad that said a male trainer's exercise program will cause women to "bulk up." The latter part of this statement we know is possibly true for only a portion of females that train with that needed amount of intensity. The whole statement in general, I think, is just a marketing ploy based solely on someone's opinion, not fact.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting Todd. I appreciate it.
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0 # Sire 2010-04-09 00:14
I reckon the only time it would make a difference is if a male would not listen to a female because of the difference in gender.

Personally I don't think it should make any difference at all as long as the person doing the training knows their stuff.
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0 # Aaron 2010-04-09 00:20
You're right. As long as someone has the qualifications and experience, and you get along well, gender shouldn't matter.
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0 # Mitch 2010-04-10 08:38
First, I hope most of your visitors know that's not really the women in those pictures. I've seen each of these women with their real bodies, and you know they're women.

Second, I'm not sure how well I'd react either way. I find in general that I talk better with women, but I'm not sure if it would matter which one I'd work with better as it pertained to working out. What I do know is that I would NOT respond well to someone like that woman on Biggest Loser; I'd check out in a heartbeat. In that case, it wouldn't matter whether it was a male or female, other than I'm betting a male could take the punch in the face better than the female could if someone dared talk to me like that. lol
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0 # Aaron 2010-04-11 01:53
Ha ha, Mitch! I knew there was something I liked about you. If you were to read any of my older posts, you'd know that I'm no fan of Ms. Jillian Michaels, either. I can't understand how anyone would put up with that nonsense. I wouldn't even want to workout in a gym with a trainer screaming at a client like that, let alone be trained by anyone with that style.

As far as the "Buffies", for anyone fooled into thinking that is an untouched photo, is it definitely morphed. Not only are they dedicated athletes, but also good sports for not raising a fuss about having their images digitally enhanced.
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0 # Mitch 2010-04-11 04:03
People put up with stuff because they think they have to. I've never done that; I'm an only child after all, and we're just not brought up that way. It's what kept me out of the military also; I knew what that kind of life would bring.

Still, I acknowledge that if one did hire a trainer that you'd need someone who would push you more than you push yourself, but I'd also hope a trainer would work more with you than anything else, make suggestions, and not give you exercises or things to do that might hurt you more than help you.

On that last point, I say that because in my 20's I did belong to a gym, and I told the trainer they gave me at the time that I wanted my arms bigger and my legs and stomach smaller. After three months, my legs got bigger, my arms smaller (though my chest and shoulders did get bigger), and my stomach stayed the same.
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0 # Monty 2010-04-22 06:48
So, um...does your wife know about your girlfriends? ;-))

hahahahaha! Man, those are some HUGE guns on those women! Not sure being that big would be worth the; expense in tailored clothes, not being able to walker properly, not being able to play ball, or any of the "fall out" as age sets in...GEESH!

Hope all is well!

Monty
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0 # Aaron 2010-04-22 10:28
Shhhhhh! :no-comments:

Guns is an understatement. It's more like "howitzers"

All is well. Tell Kimberly I said Happy Belated Birthday
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